﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:admin="http://webns.net/mvcb/"><channel rdf:about="/comments/rss.aspx"><title>BLOG.BESTCOACH4U.COM: Recent Comments</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com</link><description /><dc:publisher>Quick Blogcast</dc:publisher><admin:generatorAgent rdf:resource="http://app.onlinequickblog.com/" /><items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/08/16/what-do-you-focus-on.aspx#comment-11377934" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/08/16/what-do-you-focus-on.aspx#comment-11360536" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/05/12/five-ways-to-find-joy.aspx#comment-10471396" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/05/12/five-ways-to-find-joy.aspx#comment-10462904" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/03/04/god-works-in-mysterious-ways.aspx#comment-10199622" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2010/07/23/add-joy-to-your-life.aspx#comment-10071132" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2010/07/23/add-joy-to-your-life.aspx#comment-10065394" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/02/23/try-it-one-more-time.aspx#comment-10065392" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/03/26/prosperity-is-only-a-thought-away.aspx#comment-10047629" /><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/06/04/the-way-of-the-heart.aspx#comment-10043832" /></rdf:Seq></items></channel><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/08/16/what-do-you-focus-on.aspx#comment-11377934"><title>Comment on What do you focus on?</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/08/16/what-do-you-focus-on.aspx#comment-11377934</link><description>&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Well said, Joanne. Perspective is everything! Think how many people have positive viewpoints about your blog and congratulate yourself!</description><dc:creator>Nan Penn</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-08-18T04:17:48Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/08/16/what-do-you-focus-on.aspx#comment-11360536"><title>Comment on What do you focus on?</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/08/16/what-do-you-focus-on.aspx#comment-11360536</link><description>&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Great article Joanne. We are actually programmed to look for the negative. This is an old survival response from our days of being hunters and gatherers, looking out for danger out there. Obviously we do not need that anymore today, but that specific part of our brain does not know that. I find a lot of compassion in knowing that my brain has been programmed for that and needs a little adjustment. Compassion for having made sure I did not get killed is a good start. Then doing exactly what you are doing: questioning your focus on the few 'not likes'. Lately I have been focusing on an old conditioned belief: that I need to feel guilty and bad because I grew up in that kind of environment, where somehow I became the 'bad one'. The way I focus on it is with curiosity and a questioning of it: Really? Am I really bad? Do I really need to feel guilty because someone else wants me to be different than I am?? Really? The unconscious focus has become conscious, so hopefully soon I can remove my focus on that completely, and focus on what I love: God, Love, Stillness, Presence inside and out, Gratitude, Receiving Love etc. Right now I am sharing my focus between the two and it feel right to allow my loving focus to dissolve the misinterpretation from the past. Blessings to you!</description><dc:creator>Pernilla</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-08-16T21:29:39Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/05/12/five-ways-to-find-joy.aspx#comment-10471396"><title>Comment on Five Ways to Find Joy</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/05/12/five-ways-to-find-joy.aspx#comment-10471396</link><description>I'm delighted you like my blog and am grateful that you want to recommend it to your friends. I try to write practical and&amp;nbsp;inspiring posts. My goal is to help people experience more joy, prosperity and success. If I can help then to do those things more quickly, then I've achieved my goal. Be well and be happy!</description><dc:creator>Joanne P. Stein</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-19T23:46:37Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/05/12/five-ways-to-find-joy.aspx#comment-10462904"><title>Comment on Five Ways to Find Joy</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/05/12/five-ways-to-find-joy.aspx#comment-10462904</link><description>I am going to recommend this blog to my friends!</description><dc:creator>Mold Testing Remediation</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-19T20:20:52Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/03/04/god-works-in-mysterious-ways.aspx#comment-10199622"><title>Comment on God works in mysterious ways</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/03/04/god-works-in-mysterious-ways.aspx#comment-10199622</link><description>This is such a great resource that you are providing and you give it away for free. I love seeing websites that understand the value of providing a quality resource for free.</description><dc:creator>guireertunc</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-12T20:26:21Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2010/07/23/add-joy-to-your-life.aspx#comment-10071132"><title>Comment on Add joy to your life!</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2010/07/23/add-joy-to-your-life.aspx#comment-10071132</link><description>Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm glad you find value in my posts. It;s my intention that they help people to have the courage to make positive changes in their lives, even if their knees are knocking during the process. By sharing my experiences, I want to shorten the readers' learning curve so they can move through challenges with greater ease than I did. Thanks again for taking the time to share your comment with me. Be well and be happy!</description><dc:creator>Joanne P. Stein</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-06T18:45:50Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2010/07/23/add-joy-to-your-life.aspx#comment-10065394"><title>Comment on Add joy to your life!</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2010/07/23/add-joy-to-your-life.aspx#comment-10065394</link><description>You certainly deserve a round of applause for your post and more specifically, your blog in general. Very high quality material</description><dc:creator>FloomimeceJes</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-06T16:37:44Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/02/23/try-it-one-more-time.aspx#comment-10065392"><title>Comment on Try it one more time</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/02/23/try-it-one-more-time.aspx#comment-10065392</link><description>I just book marked your blog on Digg and StumbleUpon.I enjoy reading your commentaries.</description><dc:creator>FloomimeceJes</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-06T16:37:44Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/03/26/prosperity-is-only-a-thought-away.aspx#comment-10047629"><title>Comment on Prosperity is only a thought away!</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2009/03/26/prosperity-is-only-a-thought-away.aspx#comment-10047629</link><description>Great insight, great article, and thanks for sharing it. &lt;br /&gt;</description><dc:creator>Mozius</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-06T06:09:30Z</dc:date></item><item rdf:about="http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/06/04/the-way-of-the-heart.aspx#comment-10043832"><title>Comment on The way of the heart</title><link>http://blog.bestcoach4u.com/2011/06/04/the-way-of-the-heart.aspx#comment-10043832</link><description>This is brilliant, Joanne!  I'm keeping your article in my "inspiration" file and look forward to sharing it with others.  Much gratitude and many blessings,&lt;br /&gt;Nan</description><dc:creator>Nan Penn</dc:creator><dc:date>2011-06-06T01:45:42Z</dc:date></item></rdf:RDF>
